This past weekend I’ve caught myself smiling at a couple on Grandby St. walking hand-in-hand. Not because they looked trendy in their tailored peacoats but more so because they were an interracial couple openly walking on a saturday night. The black women looked very proud as she held her head high and passed me with her white man grinning from ear-to-ear next to her. I couldn’t help but to smile back because I was happy that she was happy.
But the question arises, why is that more black women are starting to date white men? Is it because there are a lack of black men available? Maybe they just don’t want us? My excuse to moving forth outside of our race and culture is because black men have seem to given up on us. We can sit around moping and complaining about black men not doing right but if they aren’t then move on to someone who would. (obviously homegirl caught the trend) I’m pretty sure there are plenty of men outside your own race who are willing to give, provide, and recieve the love and companianship that a black man may not do at this point in time. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t knock the brothas, but there has been a difference of reasons as to why black women date outside their race. Black men use “Angry Black Women” as an excuse and so if your own kind doesn’t approve, use the excuse of their disaproval to move on.
Could it be just plain LOVE and nothing to do with race!
YESS!!! Too much analysis over nothing really. People are attracted to all sorts of people from all sorts of races. It makes things more interesting! Mix it up! Everyone is free to love and feel attracted towards who they think is right for them in their lifetime.
My lady is the most beautiful lady. Intoxicating, exotic intelligent and articulate. She is hard working and address me. We found each other in life young enough experience love. Her color had no impact and I do not see anything but the most beautiful.woman I ever met. She likes to tease me wither booty dance, I do sometimes stop to admire the contrasting colors as we grind together. Unbelievable exotic sweet tantalizing, she cares how she looks and treats me so well I feel the intensity.of.her love even when we are apart.
That was beautiful Captain infinity. Takes one to know one! you seem like a great catch yourself. Good on yas!
P.s also, yeah i find contrasting colours HOTTT! opposites attract! it’s def. something i find a turn on. the differences!
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